How to Talk with Your Professors: A College Student’s Guide to Building Meaningful Connections
One of the most valuable things you can do in college — regardless of your major or school — is build strong relationships with your professors. They’re not just there to lecture or grade assignments; they’re mentors, advisors, and often the gateway to opportunities you might not find anywhere else. Whether it’s getting help with coursework, exploring career paths, or simply having someone to talk through ideas with, connecting with your professors can make a huge difference in your college experience. That said, starting the conversation can feel a little intimidating. If you’re unsure how to approach them, here are a few tips to help you feel more confident and make the most of those interactions.
1. Don’t Be Afraid to Introduce Yourself Early
The earlier you introduce yourself, the easier it’ll be to connect later in the semester. Swing by after class or send a quick email to say hi. Even something simple like:
“Hi Professor [Name], I really enjoyed your discussion on [topic] today, and I am excited to learn more this semester!”
It doesn’t have to be long — just enough to show you’re engaged and interested.
2. Use Office Hours (Seriously, They’re for You)
Office hours aren’t just for when you’re confused or falling behind. They’re a great opportunity to discuss ideas, seek feedback, or receive advice about internships and career paths. Come with questions, but don’t be afraid to share your interests or goals too. Those conversations often lead to mentorship and great recommendations down the line.
3. Keep It Professional, But Be Yourself
When you email a professor, start with a respectful greeting like “Dear Professor [Name]” or “Hi Dr. [Name],” explain why you’re reaching out, and end with a quick thank-you. You don’t need to sound overly formal — just be clear and polite. And when you’re talking in person, being genuine goes a long way. Professors appreciate honesty and authenticity.
4. Follow Up and Stay in Touch
If a professor gives you advice or connects you with a resource, let them know how it went. A quick thank-you email, or update, shows you’re thoughtful and professional — and it helps keep the relationship going beyond just one class.
5. Remember: They’re Here to Help
Professors, especially at PC, care deeply about their students—not just academically, but personally and professionally too. They value curiosity, effort, and real conversations. So don’t think of reaching out as a chore. Think of it as building a network of mentors who are here to support you every step of the way.
The PC Difference
Ask any member of the Providence College School of Business faculty or staff, and they’ll tell you the same thing: what makes this community special is its people. Our professors often note how personable, respectful, and friendly PC students are—qualities that make every conversation meaningful. Those small moments of connection, from a quick question after class to a thoughtful thank-you note, are what make the Friar community truly stand out.
